
50 Minutes Will Change the Next 50 Years of Your Life | ft. @SeeKen
Key Takeaways
- 1That beyond this point there is no benefit Reading too much will give you a lot of input But I think that output should be very good Putting content in, to engaging So is it for everyone Going to the gym is a good thing If you go, your health will improve Will everyone be able to go
- 2King His famous viral speech Why did it go viral
Full Transcript
My primary goal to create content wasn't to get millions of followers and views My primary goal and purpose was to keep reading books, making them and at least my learnings would keep increasing Beautiful If someone told me 15 years ago that I would be reading books and inspiring people I would say that it was not possible, it was boring to read books I used to hate studying When I was doing engineering, I realized that I had a part in a dance group called Senior Stimac And I saw that they are smarter than me and work very hard But still they are not getting that much salary So I thought that something is wrong And I started researching, YouTube was new then So how to get rich and I started researching all these things And I understood a very interesting thing If you want to be rich, then have the habits of rich people The list of top richest people was the most I saw Reading is a very common habit Readers are leaders Massive number of books, is there any limit to this?
That beyond this point there is no benefit Reading too much will give you a lot of input But I think that output should be very good Putting content in, to engaging So is it for everyone Going to the gym is a good thing If you go, your health will improve Will everyone be able to go? No, only some people will be able to go The same content is also the same You will get success with consistency, there is no guarantee But if you don't stay consistent, then you will definitely fail Everyone wants to be rich, everyone wants to be successful On the other hand, there is a lot of anxiety So a lot of the youth, a lot of our viewers face this I have tried that thing which I am not I have found failure in that thing One of the biggest lessons I have learned in my life If you tell me that these three books are life changing Which three books will you think that a 20-25 year old should be reading?
Zeeshan, you are very very welcome in a very very cold Delhi morning But thankfully we have hot coffee And we have very exciting books around us And even more exciting than that I think I am finally having a conversation with someone who is a bigger book lover And who is maybe more obsessed with books than even I am So really really looking forward to understand what your journey is And really how can books Maybe also explore where they can be negative And where they can be used improperly Because you have used them very well And especially our young audience How can they look at moving forward, growing Without getting anxious, without getting restless So a very warm welcome Thank you so much Divya ji for having me I am very happy, this setup is very beautiful There are so many books here I will tell you a fact Which even I didn't know about I am known by the name Zeeshan But my real name is Kutubuddin Really?
And Kutub means books Oh wow And I got to know this a couple of years ago I don't know, Destiny or something And when I say it, I get goosebumps Something has been aligned God has put me in books 10-15 years ago if someone would have told me Zeeshan or Kutubuddin You read books You will inspire people for books I would have said it couldn't be possible I would have been bored reading books I would have been taught by many people Traditional education, math, science, geography I used to hate studying But something changed Basically my dad is a taxi driver So he had in his mind If the child becomes an engineer, doctor Or pilot He knew only 3-4 career options I chose one option Which I thought we can do it in a viable way But when he was doing engineering I realized I had some seniors I was a part of a dance group My seniors were in second year I was in second year and they were in fourth year And I saw that they are smarter than me They work hard But still they are not getting that much salary And whatever they told us That you can achieve a lot by studying Nothing is happening From there I realized something is wrong I started researching YouTube was new How to get rich I started researching And I understood one interesting thing If you want to become rich Then have the habits of rich people What are the habits of rich people You will become rich by following those habits I researched and found a common pattern In rich people Readers are leaders There is a saying Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk Warren Buffet, Bill Gates Even in India I saw that they are crazy about books You are also crazy about books You told me that your family members Are also crazy about books I saw a pattern If you start noticing There is a pattern behind everything This pattern was there in rich people And this was the strongest pattern There were many habits But there was one habit that I can do this You can do it and it was common for everyone A lot of people Who I was getting inspired Even at that time Bill Gates, Elon Musk Mark Zuckerberg, Facebook Among the top richest people I saw that reading is a common habit I thought let's do this When I researched I got a recommendation of 3 books It was self-help related books Think and Grow Rich No, sorry Rich Dad Poor Dad The Richest Man in Babylon Things I Didn't Learn in School But I Wish I Had I read the first book Rich Dad Poor Dad I was so excited I felt like a paradigm shift We were studying for 10-15 years In simple words What is asset and liability If you want to be rich You have to have as much assets as possible The definition of asset was also good Anything that puts money in your pocket is asset Anything that takes money from your pocket Is liability If you want to be rich, make assets It was a simple thing I won't put much power in it But trust me That one lesson helps me Even today I focus more on making assets I create different channels I create pages Because I understand that These are assets that will earn me income And you know maybe when you were in engineering You were learning about the process But there was no purpose So I think When you start reading books The process will give you Your accounting degree or your Engineering degree But what you are saying is To get rich This is my mission, aim Creating assets for that purpose I think the books are very important True, why did you get it People say read books Why should I read books Because I want good marks But why do I need good marks I need good marks so that there is respect In the society So I focus on being rich This is my logic at that time But yes, a book is very good You said a very good thing, purpose I think this Is a common pattern in rich people Rich people are always purpose driven And mostly they focus on why Why am I doing it And they don't focus on how But I have seen maximum people Who are not able to do it so well Sometimes they get stuck in how They get stuck in the process What to do And I feel in today's DNA What to do YouTube will tell you, chatg will tell you But why do you have to do it And when you get the meaning of why You start drilling down And going deeper And I think for me also why is it clear to read books Because And I also give a clear reason to everyone I personally believe That there is any problem in your life I feel You are not the first person You must have had problems before Whether it is a problem related to finance Or a problem related to mental health Any problem So some smart person has already faced that problem And found a solution They are in some book You just need to find that book by reading And I myself There was a time when a lot of issues were going on in my house I was very sad in my life And I was feeling very depressed Then I read a book How to stop worrying and start living And that book gave me a lot of courage I remember my sister Had TB And it was very dangerous There are variations So something was very dangerous I remember I used to go to the hospital often And at that time I was in a very depressing situation And at that time I used to listen to the audio book How to stop worrying and start living And you know those words keep going on They always say That you get 60,000 thoughts in a day Thoughts convert to emotions Thoughts convert to actions And these thoughts Are randomly coming If you are walking Radio is playing, TV is playing Someone said something, friend said something Or you can program it And if you do that with a book You can actually manage and create 60,000 thoughts But Dishan let me get in You have read so many books And I think over time The production of books Has also increased a lot I think when we were small Maybe 400-500 books Were published For a year Means today this number has become Exponential So in terms of This massive number of books Is there a limit Beyond this point There is no benefit All books help Or there should be some balance Yes, so this I have noticed it myself I also felt it People get trapped in the net of reading a book There is a novelty debate We like new things So sometimes people Keep looking for new things And if they keep getting new things Then they keep getting dopamine hit But learning new things Doesn't help life If you Read a lot Then you get a lot of input But I think that output should be good So what good for me The strategy I had applied When I started the Seekh and Channel At that time I thought If I don't get millions of followers Because when I started the Book Summary Channel 10 years ago No Book Summary Channel was there Everyone was saying that this idea is not going to work Why are you doing this Make good pranks But still I asked myself After 10 years of making prank videos I will feel proud Will it be good for me Because if I am doing something Or if I am having this conversation I am also listening So the book you are doing Is ultimately making you grow So I created a process for myself That every week I will read a book And make a summary Followers come So one book one week So I had a rule Which I haven't broken since last 10 years I make book summaries every Sunday Maybe one Sunday is missed Or else I put it every Sunday I say that if you want good habits in life Then make primary and secondary goals So to create my content My primary goal was not to get millions of followers Or millions of views My primary goal and purpose was That I will keep reading books And at least my learnings should increase Beautiful, you made it about yourself You made it about a goal Which was driven by you That even if the followers don't come Which is in someone else's hands I will keep evolving There is a fine man technique You must have noticed When we are reading something We understand it to a certain level But when we explain it to someone It becomes clearer When we used to be in school colleges My answer is not clear But someone is passing by and I am explaining it to him And while explaining it It becomes clear to me Because you have to say it simply You have to explain the difficult words In Hindi What you are saying So true So while understanding that I made a process That we have to make a video every week And from there the car kept on going I thought that even if thousands of people see me It will be a big deal Because I had read the concept of 1000 true fans If I wanted to be rich So that was the first book That set that mindset That I need this purpose So the concept of 1000 true fans If you Add value to it This answer Will be good for those who Want to create content And want to get millions of followers This will help you Because this helped me a lot in making content Don't cheese numbers and views And followers Just think that you want 1000 people Who watch you Whose life you are adding so much value That if you make a product for them tomorrow If you make anything for them So if you buy a product for 1000 People buy it from you Then you make 10 lakhs And at that time when I had this small math In my mind I noticed that my engineering friends Are ready to do it for a year For 3-4 lakhs So is it for everyone Is it something that everyone should do Or how can they choose I think if you Go to the gym It's a good thing If you go then your health will improve Everyone should go, I think everyone should go to the gym Will everyone be able to go?
No Some people will be able to go, I think the content is the same If you do it, it's good Because If you are in any field Even if you are a doctor Notice that the content that doctors are making Their value has increased Where they could charge only 1000-2000 For their consultation Today they are able to charge 10,000 Because they have marketed themselves through content What is the purpose of you wanting to be a content creator You don't have to have a million subscribers It can just be To help your Day to day That I am connecting with my school friends or college As a doctor I am increasing your learning But that should not be a shame Right, the biggest problem I have noticed that Many people come to me and ask about content making They talk about it There is a perfectionism bug I have noticed that a lot And what is the problem in that I don't say don't become perfect Go towards perfectionism as much as possible Don't go now Start now Whatever it is, because you see The content that I am doing very well If we talk about MrBeast He is the biggest content creator in the whole world You go and watch his starting videos The quality is not good Whatever it is, you just start You start and you stay consistent I know it is a cliché It sounds boring to listen And this is also about consistency But I personally believe If there is no consistency in anything in life You will not get results The bare minimum requirement for success is consistency You will get success with consistency There is no guarantee But if you don't stay consistent You will definitely fail Let's get into this also Digital creation It has become this It's this goal It's that golden gate Rainbow which everyone wants Everyone wants to be content creator Everyone wants to be independently located At what point But at the end of the day You are also giving up your stability Maybe Say we didn't take an engineering job Which was 3-4 lakhs But there you had a guaranteed income Guaranteed structure People run towards that freedom But what is the cost of that This is the case In content creation Again, it is necessary to make a system In the beginning I usually recommend That you make content as it can be For one month And after a month or two Analyze whether it is sustainable for me Some people will come in the spirit And say I will make a video every day But then they feel burnout Then they get stuck In a rat race In Rishrat Poorya A concept of rat race How people get stuck in a job They are earning and then spending Content creation can also become a rat race You are making content But it is stuck And it happens to many people That's why you notice That many people get tired of making content And then go on a break I can't do it Because they made it everything Their entire life becomes that And I think After a month or two It is very important to step back And reflect Reflection is a powerful word Whenever we are doing a job Sometimes we go in the flow And sometimes we enjoy it There is a book by Miha Chiksan It is a flow It is a very good flow Sometimes you will get the best things But the flow is When you are doing something Which is not too difficult for you And not too difficult You just have the right Effort to try and do it And you are at that flow That you are not thinking about anything else But getting that takes time Sometimes it takes time You have said a very nice thing Effort is also a level I saw a graph That graph is very good One is the comfort zone And the other is the panic zone Many times people live in the comfort zone They don't want to do anything They don't want to do content They want to chill on Netflix But if you stay in that zone You won't get growth But many times people get motivated And watch videos and think I will finish everything They will make big resolutions And they set big goals And they reach the panic zone Where everything is fine for a while But then it gets over You will go to the gym for a week and then it gets over So in the middle is the growth zone Comfort zone, panic zone And the middle level is the growth zone You have to focus on the growth zone You have to see which thing you are not stretching And you are not stretching much And that growth zone gives you the flow And it shouldn't happen that you are getting up And you don't have motivation And you shouldn't get up and be stressed You have to make 10 videos And all those levels are different And the good thing is that That level is increasing So today also We see big creators And we think how many videos they make But they have been making videos for 10 years It took 10 years I love your comparison What you started That everyone should know It's not necessary that everyone will go But the person who is going for a year He will pick up 50 But you won't be able to pick up so much on the first day Exactly, comparison And this is also a keyword Perfectionism will stop you Comparison will stop you That's why I always say And again it is said in many books Don't compare yourself If you are creating content Don't compare yourself with anyone else And in this I will give you Two questions One is There are numbers everywhere So you are being judged on what numbers are there And your friend is more One is that question The second thing is also Especially in content creation Like there is a lot of There is a lot of influence Who is doing what And following the trends So what are the original ones How do you stay out of this Because the algorithm almost Is Promoting or Rewarding People doing similar things So the first question Was on numbers That we should focus on numbers No matter how much we try to control it But for that You focus on 1000 true fans If among 1000 This is a mindset that takes time to come I also struggle sometimes It's not like I have achieved the number I never look at the numbers But it is important to connect with your audience That's why people on YouTube And other people also say to do live Talk to your audience, engage with them Because when we engage and give them time Then we create a rapport with them Rapport, trust build Then if we say anything Obviously our parents Can do a lot of things for us Our friends can do more for us Compared to random people That's why good creators Make friends with their audience Nikhil, I think I saw him A long time ago I liked one thing about him I told him about this That your connection with your audience is good And why he made that connection Because he used to do live often He used to do a lot of live weekly And monthly live, only Q&A And friends what's going on And he used to talk raw And he used to talk raw And he used to talk raw I had a podcast two weeks back With Satya speaks Satya ji He said a very interesting thing That every human being Is unique We all have our own blueprint That we are all different Divya is not Zeesha Not Tarun Everyone has their own identity And what you are saying I am remembering Even when you are creating content You have to transmit that authenticity That's very important That's the answer to your second question That's the answer Many people ask me Because two or three years ago I used to run an academy Where I used to teach content There used to be a lot of questions That there is a lot of competition How can we be unique in this competition It's important to have a USP in products How can we be unique?
Who will look after us? The answer is so simple Whatever you are The way I am talking This is my tone to talk I will try to talk differently That's why I say in podcasts I won't speak English Because I don't have that level of comfort I can improve myself But the more I try to talk authentically The more I speak The better it is There is a book by Dale Carnegie The Art of Public Speaking It's written in his book The great speakers They didn't prepare and write the speech Like Martin Jr. King His famous viral speech Why did it go viral? It didn't go viral because They used techniques That's why it went viral Because they talked from the heart They talked raw and authentic People like raw and authentic This is happening The trend you will notice We have to portray ourselves And that's where the uniqueness comes from As you said beautifully Divya Ji is Divya Ji I can't copy you even if I want to Because it's your call You don't like some things And that's where your uniqueness comes from And people will connect with you That's the difference between a movie and YouTube Social and Bollywood There is a difference You are just being yourself I have thought about these beautiful things Why YouTube became a hit It happened because People started liking YouTubers Because they were raw and authentic Celebrities have a different craze But people think that YouTube is their own People meet me and say I feel like a brother You feel like an elder brother So YouTube has given that feeling Content has given that feeling Because an aura personality Has a different need It does different things But I think YouTubers should be YouTubers If you try to become a celebrity What happens sometimes We have seen it Many YouTubers try to become a celebrity But they don't become YouTubers I would love to take this conversation Being real, being authentic But nowadays There are two types One is intense ambition Everyone wants to be rich Everyone wants to be successful On the other hand There is a lot of anxiety On the third side There is confusion A lot of our viewers face this On one hand there is ambition To become big and fast On the other hand There is confusion And third is comparison In your life have you faced this How did you get out of this I think I have faced it many times And I have noticed Whenever I tried something Which I am not I have been failed I have noticed many times Whenever I tried To make content like others One of the biggest lessons I have learned in my life Nothing is black and white Never think in black and white Never think in binary Either we want to be 100% raw Or we want to be The trend that others want In the middle of gray area Truth is always in the gray area You have to understand that gray area Follow the trends But if you put your uniqueness in it It will be more in trend Our survival instinct Hunter instinct We magnify the dangers But We underplay the opportunities This is very important This is very important And do you know how I say this line In life to reduce problems Start saying less problems People give too much time, effort and energy to problems Even the small problems increase I did a podcast It was called Swapnil Swaroop I think his name was Swapnil Swaroop The coal minister The coal secretary I asked him a question He said sir you have a good intention Till you talk You have to do a lot of work But in politics you don't get to do that Sometimes there are authorities Who are controlling you They didn't have that much freedom How do you do your work He said I used to fight a lot with everyone There was a fight with everyone Because of which they had many transfers But he said I started doing one thing I started focusing on can First he used to focus on What is the thing called?
When he used to focus on can His canth used to increase I can't do this, I can't do that But when he started focusing on can He started seeing those things In law of attraction it comes in this line Particular activating system Our brain The thing we focus on increases If you focus on problems You will see more problems For example I can give an example You can also do it If I tell you how many red things are there in this room You can see Just small exercises How many are there 8 My question is How many green things were there You didn't see it right? But green things are there But we didn't focus on it You can see art by focusing on red I will tell you to focus on green You will see more than art That is why goals are important Visualization is also important What you want is The more you see it The more it will help you to focus When you do it for the first time You think you are an idiot When you see it for the first time You think what is the vision of it There is this discomfort How am I thinking How will I do this or that But I think the more you start doing it You start convincing yourself That your body can And you are capable of this True This is what you said Visualization is working Because you break it You haven't connected yourself with it You have to make that belief Whatever you are visualizing If it looks uncomfortable That is the problem If it looks uncomfortable Your brain will give you reasons That you shouldn't do it For example if I am visualizing I don't know Maybe 10 million followers I should do it If I am visualizing Numbers And I am not coming from inside I am not understanding that level My self-image is not 10 million And until I don't have a self-image I won't be able to take action This is a very beautiful concept I learned it from Ram sir Your self-image You notice that the maximum self-image of people is small We don't consider ourselves worthy And those who think They do it You think that you are not capable And when you see Less smart than you Less talented than you I will do it Sometimes they do it Their blunt self-confidence Helps them That helps you get through They say that Ignorance sometimes is bliss You are asking Walt Disney What made you build this He is like I didn't know any better I didn't know what I was doing So I did it You know how difficult it is You don't do it So true A study was done To see what is the thing Which is the biggest predictor of success In that I don't remember the name But they did a study And the conclusion was There is something called self-efficacy Self-efficacy is the biggest predictor That whether you will achieve success or not What is the meaning of self-efficacy So we spoke about Visualisation, affirmation In the spark framework And the next was Yes Silence, picture Affirmation, then read and reflect So read and reflect We read a lot We consume a lot We learnt a lot in the podcast But the problem is Until you don't reflect Your brain won't understand That what is important Our brain focuses on The things which are important And the interesting thing is If I keep telling you Lies But if I keep telling you Your brain starts believing Say a lie so many times That it becomes a truth But yes It is the same If you reflect You understand Like 2025 is over So I tell my students What to do in 2026 Reflect and take a step back And see how 2025 went Why it went, what I did good What I did wrong And many businesses do the same So see what happened in the last week They reflect Until that reflection We won't know if we are moving in the right direction Usually if we are suffering from a train Like we used to suffer from a train We used to check the stations We know the train is about to leave But still we say this station is coming Our brain needs Reflection And that is important for remembrance In today's time Distraction is increasing So many random information is coming to our brain That it is getting confused It doesn't understand what to do Reflect for this If you are listening to the podcast Pause the video for a while Reflect How relevant is the thing they are saying Whether they are saying it right or not Be your own judge Reflect It will help you tremendously In 2025 when I show goals I write many things In 2026 I wrote only one goal I have to focus on one thing I have to increase the subscription of my summary board And I think it took so much time to get clarity But now I think If I get clarity I will get good results Because you are concentrated on that And again You are making it sound very easy I did one thing But I decided one thing That I have to increase the subscription The rest of the people Are doing many things And you know there is this thing If there is speed then it is successful If there is no speed then I am left behind So that anxiety You were focusing on subscription And you should have been working on These five other things Instead So that anxiety The things people say But how can you just do this one thing I have lost your mind See this thing I think it took time After reading so many books After doing so many experiments I got clarity That I have to focus on one thing It takes time Because sometimes we don't know what we have to do And when you get clarity When you take wrong action 10 times I think that is part and parcel of life When we go somewhere If there is a buffet We try 10 things there If one thing is good then we eat it It is better That is why smart people Mentors say 20s is for experiment Experiment in your 20s Achieve clarity in your 30s And do one thing I think this thing is stuck in my mind And this is happening with me I have done many experiments in my 20s Now I am in my 30s I will focus on that That is actually very good Plan that 20s is the time for you to Explore Because there is less responsibility Then you can do it And then you can look at Going consistent after you have this Focus And you will get it again You will get your answers When you spend time with yourself When you sit in silence and ask yourself questions I know many of my friends Who go on retreat They quit their work One day my friend Mangesh Shindevo He creates Willpower Star content He says that I leave my process And go for a day with bike He will go alone And he will think alone And this pattern Life is all about patterns I have learnt a lesson about this Tony Robbins talks a lot about this Life is all about recognizing patterns Breaking patterns This is life When you go to the temple they will say you are subordinate The truth is connected I mean it is so true When we talk about brain We talk about manifestation You will talk to neuroscientist They will also tell the same thing You will talk to yoga They will also tell the same thing You will talk to spiritual guru They will tell you spiritually They will tell you through body They will tell you through environment But every area Science will prove itself You will realize that they all keep getting proved again and again And from there you get dots connected So from there you get clarity That I should wake up in the morning I think I should wake up in the morning Because I have noticed this thing myself And we have all these points of reference We have videos and people And one day you will wake up in the morning and realize That I enjoyed waking up in the morning I should do this And then comes the self-growth You will also realize That I am doing something My goal is I am getting more done But if you have that first clarity What is my purpose And the more you get driven towards your purpose Then your dopamine will automatically come That I am getting to achieve it So that waking up in the morning Which you didn't like before Now it will come from inside Because you will be enjoying it Right Jishan, again I want to come back a little bit To this idea of reading books And a lot of people Read a lot But they almost get stuck there They feel like They should do some more preparation No, I don't know And you feel that I need to know more And you are delaying action Have you ever been stuck in this Or how did you get out of this I think the maximum self-help People who are in the self-help category I have seen in the zone They get stuck like this And this gets stuck In different things Some people just listen to new songs They get stuck in a loop Similarly, there is a percentage of people Who will come every week And watch videos and say that there are no changes in their life Why they are not coming?
Because you are not taking action That's why I have started doing this message Since last month and few months And sometimes I go on podcasts And say that you have learned 10 things Out of 10, let 9 things go One thing that you liked Comment and write it And apply it Apply it There is no other There are no complications You are making it complicated again and again Because you don't want to face it You don't want to make a video That's why you are finding excuses Excusitis I think it is told in a book The power of subconscious mind Dr. Murphy said That we are trying to find excuses again and again And this is also an excuse I don't have enough knowledge I don't have enough knowledge till now I have to prepare a little more I have to study a little more You feel very safe You are in a comfort zone We are studying But this is a big delusion Till you come you will not move forward Input and output Stagnant water gets evaporated This has happened to me I am consuming a lot But I am not creating as much as I am consuming I am not applying as much At least Try to keep a 50-50% ratio If you see content for 2 hours And learn something Apply something for at least 1 hour If you have learnt about goal setting Go and write some goals Till the input and output Is not converted Things will get bad This is why don't do this Input and output Should come and go Both should come It's not a one side If it comes I have noticed that you have more anxiety Because you have learnt 10 things You are not even applying You will feel guilty There are so many things but I am doing nothing Is there almost a point Why you say don't read too much 1 or 2 things Take that aim instead of saying I am watching 100 podcasts Or I am reading 4 books It's actually choose Choose only 3 books this month Do this much podcast My message is I give this message to everyone It's not about number of books You keep thinking it's okay But actually it's not Because you are not telling anyone That's the only thing But this is a very interesting idea That so many thoughts are coming inside you Their output is also very important In different formats You see with repetition Habits are made With repetition systems are made With repetition relationships are made Once relationships are not good When you meet again and again A different rapport is created Repeat Obviously we can't do more If I tell you 1000 things You can't repeat 1000 books You will have to choose God has made the system right I think we are getting distracted That's what I am saying Even in books people have become books knobs I have read so many books I have done this much What you are saying is beautiful Reduce what you are listening to What books you are reading And look at implement You have done one thing Then let's get into the next book Or the third idea Sometimes One idea can take a lifetime to implement If I just want to make health There is one idea Just have to make In that life can end We don't need too many ideas Today's time is such That we are so connected Earlier we were In social I think it is told in social book Earlier we were a small village Of 40-50 people There was competition Everything was good Happiness was there Now a person is sitting Looking at the lives of 40,000 people And among 40,000 people Some are doing very well in health Some are doing very well in podcast Some are doing very well in this But we are not understanding That we are seeing things at the level of the world We are doing very well at our level Again that comparison Has increased at a very drastic level Which again has to be reduced I am a content creator But I will recommend you not to see too much content Because you will be crazy Don't see too much content What is my aim I read books, make book summary My views are increasing I don't need to see much And I am happy in this I will just take this You said such a good thing And I read this somewhere That a self-help me and this whole idea And content is mindset is everything You can do anything So instead of seeing that as a motivation So instead of seeing that as a motivation People have also started looking That as blaming themselves That I can do everything And I am not doing anything So you are almost You are a victim But you are abusing yourself But you are abusing yourself By putting these unreal ideas in your head By putting these unreal ideas in your head That my life will be X, Y, Z Versus what you are saying Choose one or two things Don't use this as something To kill yourself overall You said a very deep thing It's an interesting point To choose few things and become an expert in it I think from here you will understand You will get clarity And every person You see the biggest person He is not good at everything Elon Musk is very rich But he is not that good in relationships He might not be that good in health David Goggins is very good in health But maybe he is not that good in finances We glorify a lot There is a halo effect We are good at one thing We think it will be good in everything That's why people make cricketers politicians That's why people make cricketers politicians But they are not good at politics We are made for few things But I think Our purpose is To find out The things we are made for And sometimes You will get it from your life story Your purpose is From your pain I read somewhere that I liked it Your purpose is from your pain For example I had pain in living in a poor house And coming up from poverty I felt painful When it was raining and water was dripping I didn't like it I wanted to be in a decent place And that was my pain Which I had to convert And I finished that pain for myself Now my job is To help others to finish the pain So that became my purpose Every person has a pain in their life Your job is to overcome that pain You have overcome it for yourself Now you have to do it for the world So I have a community member Who I think is not a mom or dad Unfortunately they passed away And he had a lot of issues in his family So I told him This was your pain There are many people And he has overcome it Even after a lot of problems He is living a good life He has converted his pain And has become a hero Now I tell him Your job is to help everyone Who is facing the same problems Because you have been there You have learnt that And now you have a purpose How many people can help you How many people can change your life I love this idea of A purpose from pain Is a very strong connection And you have experienced a lot of pain Look at that Solve for it Look at the pain Look at the suffering If we solve it Sometimes God gives you pain Sometimes your biggest pain Is your biggest teacher You understand that Every time you get that You enjoy it And know that the other side Will be exciting Thank you Zeeshan Great conversation I am sure you get asked this a lot But if you tell me These three books Are life changing You spoke about the first three books But which three books You think That a 20-25 year old Should be reading Before saying such a random book I ask people Which is the place Where you want to improve Or you want something to change What will happen for you Will it be a relationship or money Seneka has said There are four pillars of life Which I like Work on four pillars Health, wealth, relationship and happiness Whoever has these four things Their life is sorted Where are you struggling If you are struggling on health I think a good book Salt, sugar and fat Is a good book If you talk about wealth Because of the internet And the opportunities Are not that much off-line So for that Alex Hormozzi's books 100 million offers, models and needs All three are trios You can read Russell Branson's books According to the current time Millionaire Fastland Is a good book And M.J.
Damarco He also inspired me To build systems Create businesses Talking about relationships Men are from Mars Women are from Venus They tell us how men and women Think in different ways Five love languages Is a good book It tells us How every person's love language Is different Someone's physical touch Someone's gift Someone's words of affirmation Someone's quality time Have you noticed This idea of the book You don't understand You think I am doing this But you don't have to Understand that for the other person Talking, giving them time Attention is different Understanding why someone is talking In a particular way This book has helped me Me and my wife We talk about love languages This is not my love language I want to feel loved We have made our love languages When do you feel love Time You feel love after time Or you like surprises It is a good book for relationships For others It is a classic book It is classic I recommend it It is old but good I like Dale Carnegie It is a book with happiness Advantage It is a good book You can read it These were four pillars I recommend it It is fun When you search it And go to chat GPT Your friend has become so good Go to chat GPT And tell him that you have problems I want to end this You will read more Compared to my books A lot of times What happens with me I just go and stand Even on Amazon I stand Books call out to me They call me At different times Different interests Again what you are saying The answers are inside You can just sit Wait for a little time And they will give you You are right Sometimes We know what to do We just want to hear it from the other side That this is what we are doing So that you take responsibility I am going Thank you so much Ishaan It has been fantastic To talk about content creation About manifestation About this book It was fun Really look forward to more conversation Thank you so much for having me I also liked it We have covered all three Content, manifestation
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