The Cockroach Story That Explains Your Entire Mindset

We were talking about these three girls who go to a restaurant. Pretty girls, they go to a restaurant and sit down, order something, and as soon as the food arrives, they find a cockroach somewhere. And everybody shrieks, like, aaaawww. The waiter comes, comes and looks, what is it, madam, what is it? And this cockroach, he picks it up, takes it and throws it away. Where was the problem? He didn't see any problem, right? That is because the same thing that I was trying to come to is the problem is in your ability to deal with the situation. The problem was not the situation. If you victimize yourself that I can't touch it, it's that thing, then you can't do anything.